This is more than
dating tips.
This is teaching you to receive love, not chase it.
Does it feel like every sunset you ride into with Prince Charming leads to crying on the couch, destroying a pint of Ben & Jerry’s & posting passive aggressive stories to Instagram?
Does the thought of doing it all again - the small talk, getting to know each other, going on dates, making memories & getting your hopes up - make you want to lock your heart in a vault & lose the key?
That’s…totally valid. Dating can be draining.
But here’s what I need you to hear next: You are so worthy of deep, genuine love—no matter what’s happened so far.
And your person is out there, wondering where you are, too.
The problem isn’t dating enough people to find the one. It’s learning to embrace the version of yourself who’s finally ready for them.
Does this feel familiar? 👇🏼
You love the rush of excitement & potential with someone new—before the eventual crumbling where you’re left wondering what you did wrong
Your heart races when he takes hours to reply.
You reread your texts a dozen times, praying you didn’t “say too much.”
You reanalyze that four-date situationship like it’s the key to solving world hunger.
Your heart falls into your stomach when you finally ask “what are we” only for him to avoid the conversation.
You do the little things to let them know you’re paying attention, but never feel the same appreciation.
And it all sends you spiraling into,What’s wrong with me? Why does this always happen? Why don’t I ever get the happy ending?
But the problem isn’t you—
It’s the version of you that learned that you have to earn love to begin with.
You’re not broken. You’re just overdue to bloom into your confident, unfazed era.
The one that looks like this:
💌 You get ghosted—but instead of crying, you breathe deeply and think, thank you, universe, for the redirection.
🧘♀️ You show both your good and messy sides - like you love spontaneity but are late for everything - because you know that your person will stick around for all of it.
💡 You catch yourself feeling anxious when you send that “risky” text, but now you know how to ground yourself, process it & move on, not spiral waiting on a reply.
🚩 They’re rude to the server on your date, & instead of inventing excuses for their behavior, you feel gratitude at being shown why they’re not meant for you.
💗 And when someone does show up aligned, present, and emotionally available…
You don’t sabotage it (even when it might feel scary).
You receive it. With an open heart. And with standards intact.
Because you know you deserve it, and that anyone is lucky to access your heart!
This is the transformation my work leads you into—not just “feeling better,” but living, loving, and choosing differently. Intuitively. Confidently.
I’m Emily. 😘
And I’m here to help you stop chasing love & start attracting it—by becoming the version of you who no longer settles.
I created Root to Love because I lived this.
I once stayed in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who made me question & doubt my own worth — because I truly believed I didn’t deserve more.
In dating, I’ve ignored red flags, suppressed my needs, and told myself to be grateful for LITERAL CRUMBS.
But once I finally said “there HAS to be a better way” & dug deeper — I discovered exactly how to feel safe in my own body, stay grounded in being my perfectly imperfect self, and sure as hell of my worth. Everything changed.
And now, it’s your turn. 💝
What changes when you do this process?
🤍 You go from “Will they like me?” to “Do I even like them?”
🤍 You stop confusing the butterflies with compatibility.
🤍 You recognize emotional safety - not chaos - as a turn-on.
🤍 You rewrite your standards, and actually stick to them.
🤍 You feel whole without a relationship, and magnetize one that matches your wholeness.
It’s not about “fixing yourself.” There is nothing wrong with you.
It’s about coming back to yourself—and learning to receive love without performing or changing yourself for it.
Work Together
I’m launching a powerful program called Conscious Dating Reset on August 11th.
It’s basically a one-week dating bootcamp - all designed to get you shifting from feeling stuck, confused, or heart-weary… to dating with clarity, confidence, & self-worth.
Spots are limited — sign up here for early bird pricing & first access. 🤍
